Thursday, June 4, 2009

3 Simple Ways to Attract Summer Love

Its about to be that time of year again when the sun stays out longer, the weather gets warmer and the desire for summer romance begins to sizzle within.

If you are already in a relationship, you get the extra urge to get out there and have some Summer Lovin' Fun with your significant other.

If you are still single and yearning for that someone special to come into your life, there are some things you could do to attract your true love like a bee to honey!

1. Love Yourself First.

This is the #1 most important!

In fact, I call it the most crucial rule everyone should live by in life.

Loving yourself doesn't mean that you are selfish. It means that you cherish who you are, are happy about your life choices from today on forward, and you can smile when you look at yourself in the mirror.

In order to attract love, you have to believe you are worthy to attract the right person into your life.

This means that you have to Love Yourself.

Whoever you attract into your life is a reflection of who you are at that moment.

If you are someone who is always cheery, generous, kind, and hardworking, then it is very likely you will attract people who have one or more of your positive attributes. Thus if you are someone who is always doubtful of your own ability and capability to meet the right person, then it is very likely you will that same type of person into your life!

2. Be the person you want to find.

Get clear on what your values are and what kinds of values you want to attract in a mate.

Do you want to attract a mate who is fun, honest, caring, affectionate, hard working, smart, shows up on time, returns phone calls & texts, has strong family values?

Whatever values are important to you are the exact values you should start showing to the world.

Open up your heart and give your love to others as well while you are waiting for your someone special to enter your life.

When you open up and give more love, more love will return and be given you too.

3. Don't wait for love to come to you.

Let's face it, there are millions of ways that the internet has changed our lives. And, Dating is one of the biggest.

I know, I know - many of you still shy away from accepting that wink on You might still be stuck in the fantasy of meeting someone the old fashioned way is how you want love to happen to you (and, I'm not saying it won't).

Or, you might say, "there are so many freaks on the net." Well, there are so many out in the world and at your corner bar as well.

Think about it: the days of having to rely on being set up by a friend or hoping to be in the right place at the right time to meet a guy in a bar are lessening by the day.

What if I told you that your "One" could be on match, eHarmony, or chemistry right now! And, because you don't want to "go there" someone else might snag him up from you.

If you want to find someone this summer, all you have to do is jump online, plug in your personal criteria, and within seconds a list of thousands of eligible men appears right on your screen for you to browse and contact at your leisure.

Now how Brilliant is that!